The Addiction

     Some people have various addictions that they hid from other people cause they are to ashamed to admit that they have a problem.

     Addictions come in various forms, from drugs and alcohol to even LOVE and Lust...now the latter may seem a little crazy but think of it this way if you are so in love with someone and it ends up failing because of the other persons addiction to having to be in a relationship.


     Now it may seem unhealthy but it truly is an addiction that can cause people to do stupid things such as stalking and even trying to commit suicide.

 When they do admit their addiction be there for that person cause, it may be the one life that you help change.

The Regret

Guys when you are in a relationship that means the most to you stick with it, cause eventually thing are going to get rough and it's the way that you handle it that is going to matter to her the most.

If you run away when she needs you the most it only proves to her that there was no "LOVE" within your heart...Stay with her and be there for her will solidify your commitment to her as a partner in the relationship.

Don't  run away and then "REGRET" it later, by time you realize it she will have moved on without you...

Fun Time!!

Today's lesson is all about having fun..Take her to the park and push her on the swings..make a picnic lunch and eat outside, meals don't have to be inside of a restaurant to be fun....surprise her and order her something from Victoria Secrets, Fredrick's of Hollywood.. hey fun for both..JUST REMEMBER TO HAVE FUN!!!

The Hurt

Physical bruises fade away, Emotional scares remain. A relationship based on beating each other down Emotionally, shows that there is no "LOVE" at all within the relationship..

Relationships in 3D..no Glasses Required

Guys what women want from men the most in their relationships with us is to spend time with their man outside of the bedroom.  Yes guys, sex is not the most important part of a relationship, it is an added bonus but still not the most important part.

Women want to experience life in all facets of the "Relationship" with their man.  When you become more in-tuned with your woman, she will appreciate you more and this is the best way to develop that 3D relationship, one of loyalty, trust, and respect...till next post enjoy..

"The Dance"

Guys always ask your woman to dance...even if you have 2 left feet..as long as you don't step on hers...she will love the gesture. Take the chance or else miss out... Garth Brooks said it best in his song "The Dance"...


"Our lives are better left to chance I could have missed the pain 
But I'd of had to miss the dance 
Yes my life is better left to chance 
I could have missed the pain but I'd of had to miss the dance"

The Cheerleader

There are many ways to express Love..but the one that all women LOVE the most is when the guy that they are with showers them with affection and are willing to be their cheerleader.  When I say cheerleader I don't necessarily mean the RAH RAH type, but that sometimes that might be the case.  If your woman has decided to tackle a real hard project be there to cheer her on in every aspect of that project...remember don't do it for her but, help her when she does ASK for it

Road of Love

In all relationships there is always a beginning, and an end, yet somewhere in the middle you actually meet each other and learn to love each other.  While the "Road of Love" may have its potholes and speed bumps we learn to navigate it by learning to listen to the other person that we are with. Learn to read and listen to each other..

"Had me at Hello"

Guys here is something for you try....Call her in the middle of the day to just say "Hello"...remember Jerry Maguire...."You had me at Hello"....don't call for any other reason....

"She isn't Broken"

When a woman tries to build a relationship with a man by talking about her personal life and problems, men don't understand what is happening and try to give advice and fix the problem.
Guys women don't want to be fixed! That makes them feel like they are broken or defective. They want to be heard and form a close relationship with the man that they are with.

"SORRY"

Sometimes "Sorry" is the last thing that a woman wants to hear,"Sorry" just means that you 


won't do it again.....Apologies never will be the same to a woman scorned.

Love GPS

When on the road of Love..there should only be one path..straight to her heart..there will be detours,the 


occasional bumps in the road, but as long as you remember to follow the "LOVE GPS" it will always lead you


home...Don't forget her favorite flowers...

Emptiness..

When she leaves the room and you feel that emptiness inside, don't worry it will go away...when 


she returns,make sure you let her know that you missed her,just this small gesture will ensure that


she knows how much you care for her.

The "ONE"

When the person you are trying to be with needs time to find herself..don't take it as rejection towards you but a 


willingness to want to let your friendship grow into what could possibly be that "One".


Rebound relationships whether one or five will only help her grow as a more well rounded and strong woman...

Show her Love not Hate...

Guys if your initial gesture to the woman you love in the morning is anything less than positive...Why are you


surprised that she treats you negatively...A positive woman is a strong confident woman,


 a woman that is abused is only going to fight back

Words of Advice...

Woman love to hear a man ask for advice from the her..it shows them that you are willing to listen to her and 


take whatever critisism she may give to the heart...which in turn makes the relationship stronger

Truth be told....

Tell her the truth,but don't tell her anything that might hurt her feelings...Also treat her like a "BEAUTIFUL"


butterfly..set her free and if she returns to you then she is the "ONE" that's meant to be..And don't for get no 


matter how tough she acts she still wants to feel special and loved!

Her Smile

Do little things that make her smile (write her little notes, make her a homemade card, etc.) will always remind 


her of your love and or friendship...but an occasional waterworks doesn't hurt every once in a while...

The little things...

When all is said and done make sure you are the one that she can rely on..cause if she can't rely 


on you for the small things..then she definitely won't try to rely on you for the major problems that 


arise...

Promises Kept

Today's lesson is for the one's that are divorced and have kids, remember that it took the two of 


you to be in "Love" to create a child together...yes you are now divorced because of one reason or 


another, but its not the Kids fault...When making a promise to a child remember that the child takes


your words to heart and it is the heart of the child that you break by breaking that promise...To the


women that often read this Be there for your children cause not all guys are true to their word


sometimes...

The Replacement Dad

In the event that you do become involved with a lady friend that has a child remember that 


you are in the kids lives but you aren't the replacement father even if the real father isn't 


around...be there for them cause they will see that you do care.

Conquest: The Heart of the Lady

 Guys today's women want to feel like a princess...so if we take what the princes and knights taught us that in order for them to win the heart of the lady they had to go on a conquest...not today's version which is to see how many ladies we can be with but that which delights her heart and soul to love..

Talk the Talk...

Guys don't be afraid to talk to or ask a female friend out..cause you never know when you will


 get the chance again.. rejection is life's little way of saying that she wasn't the one...and that 


there will be another one to come your way...

Children

Just because she has kids is not a reason for you to run...treat them like your own and show 


their mother the kind of love she deserves..

Small Steps

Small steps mean more than the giant leap...meaning if you take it slow and get to really 


know the woman that you want to be with on an "emotional" level and not just a "physical" 


one you will develop your relationship into one that will last..

Commitment

Guys when you decide not to commit to a woman that you say you love and only want to be friends that is what 


it is just friends.it is not a line to reel her back in anytime you want to

What is GGTWR?

GGTWR stand for Guys Guide to Women and Relationships. I added the R cause it is a fact that if you are a guy looking to talk to a woman you possibly want a relationship with her...Ladies these observations can go both ways so if you happen to read something that helps let your "Guy" know about this blog... I will tell you right off the bat I am not a doctor and these are just my opinions of various stages of relationships from friends to marriage and even divorce.

These are random thoughts and opinion that I have had running through my head ever since I started dating way back when, mostly cause I am an observer of relationships that I have had and that others around me have had.

GGTW started out on Face Book mostly as a way for me to cope with the fact that I was going through a very hard divorce.  Then as I started making posts and people commented off those post lets just say it brought me to starting this blog and maybe down the road sometime a book.  If you have any questions that you want me try and answer I will.

Please refrain from the use of vulgar and inappropriate language as I do have children and they might read these.