Think of the Kids FIRST....

I had a conversation with a friend of mine yesterday, I won't mention any names to protect the innocent ones...THE KIDS...but during this conversation we got to talking about how men and women do stuff that not only hurts the other party involved but at the same time hurts the KIDS more.

During the conversation I pointed this out to her..."guys don't realize and some women too that just because you are going through or are already divorced..that the kids are the ones that suffer by you being the idiot in the situation..".

I have another friend of mine that is going through a little harder situation cause the father refuses to basically interact with his own child..or if he does set up a time and date to be with his child he cancels out. Guys and Gals it took two to tango and make the kids, own up to your responsibility and if you say you are going to do something then you darn for sure better stop the world you live in and make sure that the KIDS are first.

Another thing that guys need to realize within this situation is that when you hurt the child MOMMA BEAR protects her cubs and if you don't want to see the teeth stay out of the trap..JUST SAYING

Now I know I am going to take the flack for this comment but I don't really care because I know that when it all comes down to it I make sure that my kids are provided for FIRST, I pay my child support ahead of time so that way nothing can be said about that. As far as other things that my kids want they know that if daddy has the resources to get what they need they will get it,if not then they wait. I have always tried to be the civil one in this situation and my older two see that DADDY is at least trying.

to: MY PRECIOUS THREE (MP3)

DADDY LOVES YOU AND WILL ALWAYS BE THERE FOR YOU>>>ALL YOU HAVE TO DO IS ASK...

Till the next time...LOVE yourself, but LOVE THEM MORE...

Mr. Right not Mr. Right Now....

In the past week I have had the pleasure of talking to a couple of my "lady friends"...seems as though a reoccurring theme has developed amongst them...not finding Mr. Right.....and settling for Mr. Right Now..Even though they have been listening to my advice on this blog they still dropped their standards to be with someone that'd they normally wouldn't date.

Ladies if he is saying all the right things to you....trust yourself that he probably isn't Mr. Right but is Mr. Right Now...the grass isn't always greener on the other side of the fence.

Keep your head and standards up and you will find Mr. Right soon enough...