For the kids..

Guys and Gals when you are in a relationship where one or both of you has children from another mother or father please I beg of you do not and I repeat do not use them as pawns in you conquest to make the other coparent adgitated it only does more harm then helping. Childern emulate there surroundings and can often lash out at the wrong set of parents that are trying to help out.

The Whole Package...

Guys and ladies when you start to get involved with the lady/guy friend that you assume that you might like to be with remember that some have children from other relationships that didn't quite work out for whatever reason. These children are part of the "whole package" that you must decide whether you accept both of them or not at all..for when you chose to be with them they start to gain the trust that you will not leave. Most children of parents that aren't together tend to be very depressed and tend to act out more because they want to be noticed by the birth parent which sometimes causes tension with the new person in their life but all in all they just want to be heard. Please remember that the only way to enjoy the new life that you are looking to start with is to accept that you will be different in the end by accepting the "Whole Package". Till tomorrow..

Been a long time...

Been a very long time since I posted anything to my little baby blog..but I feel as though I was helping out people that really need that little push to find themselves and their partner that they wanted to be with so as of today I will try to make sure I post something new daily.